Every person in this world has something to say and contribute to the world at large. However often we fall into a trap of feeling that all has already been said or done. The biggest reason for our existence is to exchange our thoughts and build a community of free-thinking beings. To find your voice it’s crucial operating from a place of alignment and authenticity in our personal and professional lives, and the truth is… only you are the expert of your voice and thoughts!
We all have the inner whisper which gets quietened because of fear of perceptions, rejection, and judgment around us. Sometime back when I had asked one of my relatives to be a panelist in our leadership discussions, she said, ”I have nothing new to say”! On the other hand, I have friends and family who love to share their perspectives on every national policy that is being worked out! I just love the dichotomy in our world.
Our education system prides itself on reproducing what was done thousands of years ago…while that may be the foundation, a human need to voice and create new aspects of the same needs to be encouraged and practiced.
Voice is found in the intersection of 4 circles, your Talent -Passion -Needs -Conscience. The more you dive into each of the circles the better you can carve a niche for yourself. As a leader your voice is critical for your Vision -Inner Alignment & Authenticity -Nudging your team members and navigating organizational objectives.
Often in meetings -discussions -conversations, your voice (also referred to as POV-point of view) is critical for best outcomes. Thus coming out of complacency can sure open the pathway to your legacy.
3 quick hacks to practice voicing yourself are :
- Celebrate Milestones -Every time you feel satisfied after sharing your thoughts rejoice at the occasion and make it your motivation for the next one. Most of us tend to hold off treating ourselves until we’ve accomplished something truly remarkable. Taking the time to honor your efforts will accrue valuable emotional deposits , as well as establish great reflection points to track your progress. We’re evidence-based beings. If you adjust your focus to what you’re proud of, or what you did “right,” you’ll start to see two beautiful side–effects: First, you will begin to cue into similar experiences, and then, build confidence by reiterating your ability.
- Conviction on Your Thoughts -You do not have to compromise to voice your thoughts. Your voice is important and worthy of being heard. If you are aligned to your heart and speak your mind, there is no need to panic about criticism. Take every criticism in your stride.
- Making a Note -Very often we get flashes or ideas about things that we want to express, and then it quickly disappears. Keep a small diary where you can keep all your thoughts as it comes and then build on the same. I generally get my flashes at midnight, out of nowhere!!
How does your voice feel? Have you ever felt that your voice has no need? How do you keep yourself motivated to share your voice where it is needed?
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